I say besties, you say enemies.

when we meet someone for the first time, we size them up, (for girls) we look at what their wearing, who they're friends with, try and see if you can deal with the drama. Then comes the honeymoon season when your going, doing, making everything together. Right until it gets tooo unbearable to people around you. I've done it, we've all have done it. But then you start to get annoyed and irritated with this new friend, all those times you called yourselves besties would start to slowly fall apart. This formula is the usual every girl drama but when a genuine two people become friends and their friendships start to fall apart there is nothing that could save it. the friend that is being wrongly accused would start feeling angry and rightly so, but you start questioning yourself if your have the right to do that. you go through the faze of questioning everything you did with your friend, if you were crazy to think that you guys were best-friends. just like you were in a real relationship, you start to feel unwanted and all you want to do is be alone. How can you save a friendship if the other person doesn't even notice it's falling apart? or even if they did they don't want it to be saved? Best thing you could do at that point is give that person time and space and just like you would in a relationship wait to be loved again. no matter how you feel hurt, for losing such a close friendship you have to try not to be the person with the cold shoulder. because when it come to it, they will remember how you have hurt them just like you would remember ever detail about it. just tell your self to learn to grow the fuck up! to stop gossiping about it and make new friends, surly your friend isn't waiting for you!