A girl gotta cry sometimes

you know your a strong women/girl when you know it's time to stop pitying yourself! that's the hardest thing a girl gotta know how to do because we waste so much of our times dwelling in our little miseries. but you gotta know when enough is enough and you have to move on! the next step is trying not to have others to feel bad for you, because they wont. again, you will only waste your time trying to get people to care about you instead of taking charge and changing your outcomes. you have to learn to be strong or stronger, you have to fight the tears and most importantly, never let others see you cry because that makes you weak. now i'm not saying this because I 100% believe in it, but we live in a hard world and that's just the way it works. it does not make you a bitch or cold hearted for wanting to seem strong and independent. it just makes you gain a lot more respect. look at this way, if a girl just breaks down because people are always unfair and wines about everything every time things go wrong, wouldn't you (and lets be honest here) think that that girl is weak and unworthy of your time? but that doesn't mean you have to keep everything bottled in, that you have a nervous break down! Cuz a girl gotta cry when she has to cry. All i'm saying is, don't pity yourself all the time because it will ruin you! if you go around bursting into tears and expecting people to feel bad for you, only the opposite is going to happen. all your going to end up doing is looking like a mess and looking ugly while everyone waits until you leave so they could start talking about you. because you see, where while this world is making an it girl and she shines and glitters, another is perhaps going through the toughest times of her entire existence.

I swear I wasn't trying to be mean with the picture....maybe a little lol.